It’s a saying that my mom used to say to me every now and then. What does it mean? Well, there were two uses in my household; one, it would be kind of like having two good friends, and you either take something away or withhold something from your first friend (ignoring how that would make him or her feel) to give to or pay a second friend. It’s also a way Mom used to show me that I was trying to get something I didn’t earn/deserve. Instead of earning it, I was trying to take